Overview and Rates
We are all seeking some sort of reliable refuge. Unfortunately, most of us have internalized the notion that refuge is to be found in external phenomena – other people, places and things. While these external phenomena can be pleasing, reality demonstrates that these phenomena are inherently impermanent and unsatisfactory. In addition, most of us have internalized our likes and dislikes in a way that have given rise to a crystallized belief in the existence of one’s self, the defense and protection of which has come to dictate much of our decision-making through adulthood.
Mike Lubofsky offers unique Reality Attunement Therapy to help clients move into greater alignment with the natural order of things. Through an integration of cognitive-behavioral, Gestalt existential, and Buddhist-oriented approaches, Reality Attunement Therapy helps clients move toward an internalized, felt sense of the true, ephemeral nature of things; clients heighten their level of comfort with discomfort and increasingly embrace the not knowing.
Mike is recognized as one of the leading psychotherapists for attorneys in the United States. He has presented to many law firms and attorney associations, including the American Bar Association, on topics related to attorney mental health and wellness. He has been interviewed several times for articles in the National Law Journal, and other regional law-related publications. In 2025, Mike founded AttorneyTherapists.com, a top online resource for attorneys seeking information on mental health and wellness, including the only online directory of psychotherapists with dual credentials and experience as practicing attorneys.
Since 2023, Mike has served as a Mental Health Hearing Officer for the Superior Court of California, County of Alameda, where he adjudicates matters involving involuntary commitment to psychiatric facilities, as well as capacity hearings involving the administration of psychiatric medications.
Mike recently completed a five-month Buddhist Psychology training program for clinicians offered through Spirit Rock Meditation Center based in Marin County, California, and has maintained a regular meditation practice for over thirty years.
Mike’s rate for individual psychotherapy is $200 for a 50-minute session. Therapy with couples is charged at between $225 per session. Our new Therapy on Demand by Lexthera service is being offered at an introductory rate of just $100.00/session for a limited time, after an initial live session with Mike Lubofsky which is billed at $200.00. After the initial Therapy on Demand by Lexthera request, subsequent sessions for Therapy on Demand by Lexthera will be charged at just $150.00 for a limited time. Click here to request Therapy on Demand by Lexthera service. We accept payment electronically through Ivy Pay, a HIPAA-compliant payment platform for therapists. We do not accept direct payment from insurance carriers though you may be able to obtain reimbursement for my sessions as an out-of-network provider.
